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Effective Apology Steps

A checklist of steps for making a sincere apology: own what you did, acknowledge the impact and offer to make it right.

What this tool does

A checklist of steps for making a sincere apology: own what you did, acknowledge the impact and offer to make it right.

How to use

  1. Work down the list and tick each item as you finish it.
  2. Ticks are saved on this device, in your browser, so they are still there when you come back.

What this checklist covers

The list has 2 groups and 7 items.

  • Own it (4 items): Say what you did, specifically; Acknowledge the impact on the other person; Take responsibility without excuses; Avoid "but" and blame-shifting language
  • Make it right (3 items): Offer a repair: what you will do now; Explain how you will prevent it happening again; Ask what they need next

Tip: Use it to prepare before you speak or write. Ticks are saved on this device.

Limitations

  • This is a general list. Every situation and relationship is different.
  • It is not counselling or legal advice. Where an apology could have legal or workplace consequences, ask a professional first.
  • Ticks are saved only in this browser on this device.

FAQs

Q: Will following these steps guarantee forgiveness?
A: No. The steps help you apologize clearly, but how the other person responds is up to them.
Q: Does this tool write my apology?
A: No. It is a checklist you use to prepare your own words.
Q: Are my ticks saved?
A: Yes. Ticks are saved in your browser on this device and are not sent anywhere.

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